Is your child experiencing back to school anxiety or do they have overwhelming social anxiety? Are you looking for some natural remedies to soothe and heal their nervous system?
It can be tricky sometimes because they might not be telling you how they feel, but there can be other signs such as complaining of belly aches, having diarrhea or constipation, more frequent or intense tantrums, being extra clingy, asking you to sleep with them, not sleeping well, not eating well or not wanting to eat/low appetite, increased OCD behaviors or tics, nightmares, among others. Making extra time to snuggle and be close, pay attention to them, play their favorite game, read their favorite book or engage in their favorite activity can often open up the possibility of expressing or sharing those feelings, as well as being listened to.
Children are naturally resilient and can heal remarkably well, given the right conditions.
Here are 3 of my favorite herbal go to remedies for anxiety. If those don’t cut it and symptoms are more intense or interfering with life, school and your family, then go ahead and book a free 15 minute consultation, or if your child is an existing patient, then a follow up visit. www.cedarroseheals.com/appointments
- Lemon balm
- Tulsi
- Ashwaganda

Lemon balm is so delicious and an all time favorite. It has a lovely lemon scent and flavor, and is in the Mint family. It can be grown in the garden and is best fresh, just by eating the leaves or brewing a tea. It is also available as a glycerin and can be made into a honey, vinegar or oxymel(honey and vinegar concoction). The bees love it. It’s Latin name, Melissa officinalis means honey bee. This plant exudes sunshine and joy. Just sitting near it and smelling it can make one feel more balanced and alive. Sometimes you don’t even have to take the medicine internally to feel its effects. Lemon balm is great for anxiety and depression, as well as belly aches, especially in those children where every worry or fear goes to their gut. It’s also helpful for anxious eaters. It’s a wonderful cold and flu remedy, as it is anti-viral. Lemon balm is high in flavanoids and is a super anti-oxidant.
According to a old Arabian proverb, “Balm makes the heart merry and joyful.”
Caution: can lower thyroid hormone so caution used in hypothyroidism
Tulsi/Holy Basil/Ocimum sanctum aka tenuiflorum
has many different varieties and names. It is also called African Basil. It also has a wonderful, spicy, clove like aroma. It too can be a lovely addition to the garden that both children and bees love. Some varieties are more bush-like and some are larger, like the African basil. Tulsi is considered a goddess in plant form and many homes and gardens in India have a prominent location for it. As Tulsi traveled West and found its way into Christian religions, it became known as “King of the Herbs.”
Used extensively in Ayurvedic and African traditional medicines, it can be made into a delicious tea, honey, oxymel, or enjoyed as a garden nibble. It can be found in caps, tinctures and glycerin as well. It is considered a tonic( an herbal medicine used over an extended period to restore, invigorate, and strengthen the body’s systems, promoting overall health and well-being) and an adaptogenic herb( helps to adapt to new and stressful situations). It is great for the immune system, for colds/flu/respiratory illnesses. It is great for coughs and fevers. It is often seen in Ayudrvedic cough formulas. The active constituents that help with anxiety are rosmarinic acid, but as I said above, just simply sitting, smelling and singing or drawing with this marvelous plant being can be enough to help calm down nervousness or anxiousness.

Ashwaganda Withania somnifera- Nightshade family
This is also an Ayurvedic tonic herb that is great for anxiousness, nervousness, neurological issues like brain fog, tics, twitches, OCD and insomnia. It actually nourishes and tones the nervous system. It’s an adaptogenic herb that helps us adjust to new situations and to stress. Even good things can cause stress, like starting a new program or school or playing a sport one loves competitively. I often recommend this herb be taken in the morning for fatigue, lethargy and anticipatory anxiety and in the evening for sleep support for maximum benefit. Ashwaganda is also a great immune system tonic and is nourishing and healing to the thyroid gland.
It is considered a nourishing food and is wonderful in a tonic milk recipe, which is warm milk(any kind-organic cow, oat, coconut) mixed with Ashwaganda, cinnamon, cloves, ginger and honey, maple syrup or stevia.
The powder can be mixed equally with yogurt. It is also available as a glycerin and in caps.
These herbs are all available for sale at the clinic separately or in my Calm Belly/Mind formula, which I use for most patients with anxiety, insomnia, depression and neurological disorders. They can also be purchased via Fullscript, an online supplement dispensary open to the public. https://us.fullscript.com/welcome/neisenheim/store-start
As with most chronic concerns, we might need to delve more deeply into cause of the issue by looking at the school and home environment, family history, nutritional and hormonal imbalances and any potential infectious triggers, like Lyme or Strep. I’m here to help uncover the cause or causes, listen to your concerns and create a treatment plan together that works for your child and family. Please reach out if you need more help or have any questions.
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